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Healing in Motion: The Dual Process Model's Journey Through Grief

Grief is a complex and deeply personal experience that everyone inevitably faces at some point in their lives. The emotional landscape that accompanies loss is often marked by confusion, sadness, anger, and a myriad of other feelings that can be overwhelming. Traditionally, grief has been thought of as a linear journey through stages, with an end point where the pain subsides. However, Margaret Stroebe and Henk Schut's Dual Process Model challenges this notion, offering a more nuanced understanding of grief.


The Dual Process Model, introduced by Stroebe and Schut in the 1990s, recognizes that grief is not a one-size-fits-all process. Instead of conceiving of grief as a linear path, the model suggests that grieving individuals oscillate between two key processes: loss-oriented stressors and restoration-oriented stressors.

  1. Loss-Oriented Stressors: This aspect of grief involves confronting the emotions directly related to the loss. It's the process of acknowledging the pain, sadness, and yearning that accompany the absence of a loved one. During this phase, individuals may find solace in expressing their feelings, seeking support from others, and reflecting on memories shared with the person they've lost.

  2. Restoration-Oriented Stressors: While grieving, individuals also grapple with the practical and functional changes that the loss has brought about. These restoration-oriented stressors encompass the adjustments needed to continue life without the person who has passed away. This might include dealing with financial matters, managing daily routines, and attending to other relationships and responsibilities.

The beauty of the Dual Process Model lies in its recognition that life does not pause while we grieve. It acknowledges that the process of healing and adjustment involves a delicate dance between confronting the pain of loss and engaging with the demands of daily life. This oscillation is not a sign of 'moving on' or 'forgetting,' but rather a testament to our resilience in the face of adversity.


Understanding the Dual Process Model can profoundly impact the way we approach our own grief or support those who are grieving.

  1. Permission to Feel: The model normalizes the fluctuation between grief-related emotions and the need to focus on other aspects of life. This understanding grants individuals permission to experience their emotions fully without the guilt of not being solely consumed by grief.

  2. Self-Care and Balance: Grieving individuals are encouraged to find a balance between honoring their emotions and maintaining their well-being. This might involve seeking professional help, engaging in activities that bring joy, and tending to physical and mental health.

  3. Social Support: Recognizing the oscillation between grief and life highlights the importance of a strong support network. Friends and family can play a crucial role in providing comfort during the loss-oriented phase and assisting with practical matters during the restoration-oriented phase.

The Dual Process Model challenges the outdated notion of grief as a linear process and instead emphasizes the natural oscillation between loss-oriented and restoration-oriented stressors. This model underscores the complexity of grief, highlighting the importance of addressing emotions while continuing to engage with daily life. By understanding this model, we can navigate our own grief journeys with more compassion and offer meaningful support to those around us who are grieving. Remember, grief is not a destination, but a journey that can lead to growth and healing.

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